Friday, October 25, 2013
Wednesday, October 23, 2013
Elder Sighting 10-21-2013
Email to Ryan's Grandpa and Grandma from Wendy's brother in law Steve.
Hi Bob and Wendy,
We were able to enjoy dinner with Elder Chandler and Elder Mintey last Wednesday. Today I got to speak in Sacrament meeting with them. They are super enthused and full of the spirit. I look forward to working more with them as they were not involved in transfers this week. I know the Savior loves us because He placed these dear and very prepared Elders in our midst to teach our friends and neighbors. We love them and thank their parents and family for shaping their lives and testimonies.
Steve
Hi Bob and Wendy,
We were able to enjoy dinner with Elder Chandler and Elder Mintey last Wednesday. Today I got to speak in Sacrament meeting with them. They are super enthused and full of the spirit. I look forward to working more with them as they were not involved in transfers this week. I know the Savior loves us because He placed these dear and very prepared Elders in our midst to teach our friends and neighbors. We love them and thank their parents and family for shaping their lives and testimonies.
Steve
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
Letter 10-22-2013
I can't believe how much the church has grown in Bentonville in the last year and a half or so. 65% growth in the last 9 years is insane! The saints are moving back nearer to Jackson county... :) To think I'm going home to a very different ward/stake then I left from is a little weird.
That's also a great stake presidency - I went to Mr. Mac in Tville earlier today and the guy at the counter said that Stu had just come in for a post-mission suit about a month earlier. Apparently he knows now-President Barney really well, ha. He gave me $10 off the $30 tie I got too while Elder Mintey picked up his winter shoes. It was also funny because I was able to see just how big the soles on my Rockports used to be compared to the wear on them now. They'll last me another winter though for sure.
The weather has been perfect lately. We've gone through some rough spots with investigators though. Something was said (we're not sure exactly what) that Katherine and Eric misinterpreted, and so now they're "taking time to think". :( We're still working with two boys named Jordan and Derek. Their step-brother Nestor was baptized right before we got in the area. They're funny kids. Derek reminds me of Jamison a bit in personality, ha.
The picture is Jordan on the back of Elder Mintey's bike.
Lately the wards have been doing a lot of work to set up appointments for us. Their work is starting to show fruits as well - hopefully we should have some more people to teach come into next week!
-- Elder Chandler
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thought: to expect miracles in missionary work
As we've read through the Book of Mormon as a mission, one pattern I've noticed is just how many promises there are made to the missionaries of our day: the last days.
One of my favorites so far was in our reading yesterday, Mormon 8:23-25 In these verses it tells us that we, the missionaries of the last days, have the prayers of six dispensations of the most faithful people to live on earth speeding us along. We have the faith and power of those who have moved mountains, caused earthquakes, and evaded the fiery furnace helping us out. The Lord will remember the covenant He made with them: to bring forth the Book of Mormon and the true gospel to all the world.
Moroni's following words on miracles run in this vein - they are here to help us in our divine mission now. Never forget that we are not alone in this work!
That's also a great stake presidency - I went to Mr. Mac in Tville earlier today and the guy at the counter said that Stu had just come in for a post-mission suit about a month earlier. Apparently he knows now-President Barney really well, ha. He gave me $10 off the $30 tie I got too while Elder Mintey picked up his winter shoes. It was also funny because I was able to see just how big the soles on my Rockports used to be compared to the wear on them now. They'll last me another winter though for sure.
The weather has been perfect lately. We've gone through some rough spots with investigators though. Something was said (we're not sure exactly what) that Katherine and Eric misinterpreted, and so now they're "taking time to think". :( We're still working with two boys named Jordan and Derek. Their step-brother Nestor was baptized right before we got in the area. They're funny kids. Derek reminds me of Jamison a bit in personality, ha.
The picture is Jordan on the back of Elder Mintey's bike.
Lately the wards have been doing a lot of work to set up appointments for us. Their work is starting to show fruits as well - hopefully we should have some more people to teach come into next week!
-- Elder Chandler
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thought: to expect miracles in missionary work
As we've read through the Book of Mormon as a mission, one pattern I've noticed is just how many promises there are made to the missionaries of our day: the last days.
One of my favorites so far was in our reading yesterday, Mormon 8:23-25 In these verses it tells us that we, the missionaries of the last days, have the prayers of six dispensations of the most faithful people to live on earth speeding us along. We have the faith and power of those who have moved mountains, caused earthquakes, and evaded the fiery furnace helping us out. The Lord will remember the covenant He made with them: to bring forth the Book of Mormon and the true gospel to all the world.
Moroni's following words on miracles run in this vein - they are here to help us in our divine mission now. Never forget that we are not alone in this work!
Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Letter 10-15-2013
This week was transfers - Our whole district is staying which is nice. A new set
of elders is moving in with us into our apartment though. So no more separate
showers :(
We've been picking up some momentum lately as a district (and zone). We've
found a lot of people that are willing to work with us, but haven't been able to
get them to commit to much of anything, including a baptism date, so we're going
to have a nice district meeting this next week on that topic.
Chris' parents feel he isn't ready to be baptized on the 26th so we have to
push the date back to the 8th because he has problems sitting in sacrament
quietly... :\ We were able to meet with Eric again though and set a date for the
2nd of November so hopefully that runs forward this time as well. He and
Catherine seem really set on it this time.
Utah missions are awesome!
--Elder Chandler
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thought: What should I do (again)
We've made a sheet that we hand out at dinner appointments now based on the
"what shall we do" pattern for missionary work in the scriptures. This is
something that might be fun for family home evenings!
We want to help make missionary work for members as easy as possible. We're
going to flip to some different scriptures. As we read them, there's a pattern
we will be able to pick out.
Acts 2:37; Helaman 5:40; Alma 32:5; Alma 22:15; John 6:28; Mark 10:17; Acts
9:6
What is the pattern?
Each is a huge missionary experience in the scriptures. Be it the
Pentecost, the conversion of the Lamanites pre-Christ; Zoramites; king Lamoni's
father; feeding the 5000, the young wealthy ruler, or Paul, the phrase "what
should I do" always comes before a large missionary experience in the
scriptures. People might not ask us the question exactly, but might also ask us
by telling us all of their problems or asking questions of the soul.
In any case, when someone asks us "what should I do" that's the time to set
up a time and a place to meet with the missionaries. If it works in the
scriptures, it will work in real life. So what we need as missionaries is all
the members to make friends and have meaningful interactions with everyone they
can, and then listen for when they ask (and they will) "what should I do". Set
that appointment and contact your ward mission leader about it!(...exclamation
point!)
Tuesday, October 8, 2013
Letter 10-08-2013
General Conference always makes for a really great week! We watched it at a
lot of different recent converts houses - we had nonmembers lined up to go to
all of them as well, but they all fell through. Hopefully we'll catch them again
some other time. Still, the talks were great. I really liked Brother Dube's talk
on looking forward and not back. Elder Bednar's was also very insightful. I love
how the church runs financially (as opposed to another large bureaucracy, I
hear...). It's so simple. Elder Uchtdorf gave a great talk during the priesthood
session... and the list goes on.
Chris is still shooting for October 26th and is great. His parents are
getting a little uneasy, but they're active so we're going to have them pray
like we have and get the same spiritual confirmation.
We played golf this morning and did dodgeball right afterwards. There's a
picture so you can tell me how bad my golf swing is, how bent my wrists are,
etc.
-Elder Chandler
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thought: Elder Uchtdorf
I think he's a master at getting people to shift the way they "see" things.
His talk in priesthood session was a great example, but his talk on Saturday was
great also. Some of the things in his kit:
1) pithy, quotable phrases
2) positive/negative statements
3) the phrase (roughly), "see it this way"
4) He speaks your point of view first so you know he understands the
situation, and -then- explains his point of view
I want to apply some of this in teaching so I can get investigators to have
the paradigm shifts that Elder Uchtdorf has all of us loving his talks!
Thursday, October 3, 2013
Elder Sighting 10-02-2013
"Just fed your son dinner tonight."
I got this text, and then a call from this sweet sister in Bennion. She was fascinated by Ryan's connections to the area and we had a wonderful time talking Taylorsville.
These Utah Saints are wonderful.
I got this text, and then a call from this sweet sister in Bennion. She was fascinated by Ryan's connections to the area and we had a wonderful time talking Taylorsville.
These Utah Saints are wonderful.
Wednesday, October 2, 2013
Letter 10-01-2013
Utah winter already bit pretty hard earlier this week. It was only 50
degrees but we ended up wearing sweaters. It felt way cold, especially coming
right after such a hot summer. I wonder how much fall we're actually going to
get...
Jasmin's baptism went great! Tyler did everything perfect the
first time, which is always nice. It was quaint because it was at the same time
as the general relief society broadcast but I think that's how Jasmin wanted it
anyways. They're awesome.
We've got a pretty good number of other people we're working with right now
to fill up the teaching pool again. The Zone Leaders left a lot of work hanging
when they left. We want to make sure that we don't miss anything they might have
left untied as well as start our own foundation for work. We've got a couple
others (Chris and Eric) with baptism dates right now. We're not sure how solid
they are but we'll get them to the font at some point.
Since people have asked me about being district leader the last while...
It's not really different than being a regular missionary. You don't all of a
sudden baptize weekly. The people in my district's baptisms count just as much
as each of ours. My first priority is still the same - baptize twice a month in
my area. Once I accomplish that then I'm capable of helping the others in my
district baptize twice a month. With the help from my zone leaders who are
awesome, Bennion Zone is seeing a pretty good turnaround from the old "banished
to Bennion" stereotype it had been given earlier in this mission's history (a
phrase that I may or may not have coined...).
Thanks for all the support--
Elder Chandler
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thought: more on wills
It's kind of ridiculous that it takes a month and a half to get through
Alma, then a month and a half to finish the rest of the Book of Mormon if you
read at a steady pace...
In Helaman 10, Nephi gets the sealing power. The Lord gives him power to do
anything because he would not "ask that which is contrary to [the Lord's] will".
That's a lot of power. Definitely a lot of responsibility to -always- act in
God's will. So where does Nephi turn to find the Lord's will? Does he just go
around, "bossing the Lord around" so to speak in Helaman 11 as he petitions the
Lord to send a famine instead of war, and then to take away the famine?
I think it's interesting he uses the scriptures to divine God's will, and
acts accordingly. In Hel 11:14 Nephi quotes scripture in his prayer, and tells
God why he knows that taking the famine away is His will at this time - "for
thou saidst that: If this people repent I -will- spare them".
As we study the will of God as stated in the scriptures and act according
to those principles we can come closer to having our will "swallowed up in the
will of the Father". (Mosiah 15) I think that it's cool, anyways. Nephi son of
Helaman is my favorite.
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
Letter 09-24-1013
Hello,
The weather is finally changing! We've got a
pretty good amount of rain lately which has also cooled things down. Last P-day
Elder Mintey and I went golfing with another companionship even though the winds
were probably 20 mph+ but it was still way fun. (actually I think the wind makes
it even more fun...) Elder Mintey raced NASCAR before his mission and so took a
picture next to his "racecar" as well.
Week three of whitewashing / district leader
was swell. We know the area pretty well now and can find our way around.
Jasmin's baptism was pushed back a week to this Saturday because her husband
Tyler (who is the competitive Pokemon battler) got worthy to baptize her but had
to work an all-day shift on the 21st. She's great though - we saw her at Walmart
today (she works as a manager at the customer service desk). It's funny to think
she and Tyler graduated in '11, and to see a bit of what life would have been
without a mission. It would have been weird.
We taught a 12 year old boy that was
adopted/is a foster child/ward of the state... his parents are active and he's
in a great family. We're working with him for a baptism date on October 19th -
he's been worked with previously but never worked out because he has slight
anger issues but lately he's been voluntarily coming to church. That's a big
step for him! We picked him up as a new investigator when I was on exchanges
with the Zone leaders, who had taught him in the past. They said he was doing
the best they've ever seen him so we're excited.
One of the ways Utah missions are interesting
is that new investigators are SO HARD to come by, but when you do pick one up
almost invariably they end up getting baptized 3-4 weeks later. The polarization
of people towards the church is crazy. Either they're super prepared or super
anti without much in-between, which makes for some crazy stories on both
ends.
Elder Chandler
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thought: for those who have been
offended...
The mission is still reading the Book of
Mormon together. Sometimes I don't like that they've kind of scheduled our
personal study for us by giving us these reading assignments each day. Either
way it's powerful.
We run into a lot of people that are turned
off towards the church or offended by the "stereotype Utah Mormons" -
judgmental, wont-let-kids-play-with-nonmembers, etc. All we can say is that's
not what the church is all about. This week one of the scriptures in our reading
was Helaman 3:33,
"...pride began to enter into the church - not
into the church of God, but into the hearts of the people that professed to
belong to the church of God".
The church is true even if people are not
always true to the church!... so we shouldn't go leaving it because of others
inside of it.
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Letter 09/17/2013
Everyone,
I found out earlier that the city of Bennion was actually dissolved into
Taylorsville not too long ago, so the area I'm in actually is about half
Taylorsville city and half Murray city (but in the Bennion Zone of the mission).
Both are awesome cities, but it's kind of interesting to have the youth split
into two different high schools. I know a lot of the Murray kids still
though.
Lately I've been noticing that my suits and my belt is a little big. When
we were at Mr Mac buying the clothes and stuff I needed for my mission, we
purposely bought stuff a bit bigger thinking I would gain some on my mission
here in the "heart of Zion". Apparently there's not enough Jell-o and funeral
potatoes to get me yet, though. Definitely not complaining.
Our teaching pool continues to increase. We went on exchanges twice this
week. Elder Reed came here (ZL) and was with me. We found a fair few people to
start teaching, especially since he was just transferred out of the area not too
long ago. The next day I conducted my first exchange as a DL and went over to
the other half of the stake with Elder Franco which was super fun as well! And
I'm sure Elder Mintey and Elder Dean had a good time as well, judging by the
Domino's boxes on the table when I got back... :)
We had a mission conference on Wednesday up at Brighton. It's always nice
to get out of our little boxes here in the valley and go somewhere fun as a
mission. The thoughts were good... a lot about OYMing. Apparently some of the
mission is struggling a lot and other parts are explosive so we want some
continuity. Our district went from having 4 people on date to 9 people on date
at time of writing so things are going great here at least!--
Elder Chandler
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thought:
Tuesday, September 10, 2013
Letter 09-10-2013
Dear _,
The unthinkable actually happened... I got transferred to Taylorsville!
(the zone is called Bennion but the area I cover includes parts of Taylorsville,
Murray, and Bennion - mostly Taylorsville) It's crazy because the houses in my
area are SO NICE. The basement we stay in gives my companion and I our own
bathrooms which is awesome. The apartment actually has a nickname - The Palace.
I've also already ran into Grandma Wendy's sister so I've met by great aunt and
uncle who also happens to be one of our ward mission leaders. Another first is
that I went to Leatherby's earlier today for the first time on my mission :) :)
:)
Even though we're whitewashing the Zone Leaders left us two people on date,
which is nice. One of them is a 21 year old girl that is newly married to a
returning member. His name is Tyler... and he actually plays Pokemon
competitively so we get along very very well! The work is a lot different than
Midvale; there's a lot more stopping by members and less people just
wandering/walking. We have a few nice apartment complexes to work in as
well.
I really enjoy working an area like I did in Murray Parkway again with lots
of youth and families. Hopefully we can get through the whitewash and by the end
of the transfer have things really rolling with a solid foundation.
--Elder Chandler
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thought: whitewashing an area
My brain isn't working too well right now (I think I'm just starting to
have some kind of mild bug come on...) so I'll just muse on whitewashing for a
bit.
Transfers are always great because they give you a chance to literally
start over. You can drop all of your bad habits, pick up good ones, and do so
very easily. On the converse, you can also drop all of your good habits and pick
up bad ones very easily so you move forward with caution! All in all though, as
you strive to do better and better transfers give opportunities to take giant
leaps forward.
Whitewashing is even more exaggerated. You have no "senior area companion"
to buffer your entrance. Both the new companions must be on their 'A' game at
all times for good impressions. It's a chance for, not just missionaries, but
areas, to have the same benefits of a transfer. It can start over the foundation
for the better, and that's what we're going for.
This foundation, especially with the members, is vitally important. It's
our opportunity to have a ton of members out here, each with a heart that wants
to do missionary work. One thing that has been especially important in this is
working closely and in the line of the vision of the bishop. Luckily I didn't
have to learn this by error because of Heidi's letters :) When you jump on board
with the bishop, even when the previous missionaries haven't liked him, even if
you feel at first his vision (or lack of vision) is limited, to get on board
with him and move forward with the key holder.
The next step is the rest of the ward councils, then the youth in the area,
then the "social butterfly" active members, and finally the Less
Active/Returning Members/Recent Converts. Each step is vitally important in
giving the area ability to flourish. The people here are great so it's going to
be a great six weeks!
Monday, September 9, 2013
Elder Sighting 9-05-2013
Friday, September 6, 2013
Letter from President Moffat--
September 6, 2013
Elder Ryan Chandler
1918 Ben Air Drive
Taylorsville, UT 84129
re: District Leader
Calling,
Dear Elder Chandler,
I am grateful for your acceptance of the call to serve as a District
leader in the Second District of the Bennion Zone beginning on September 4,
2013. As a District leader you fulfill a
fundamental role in the success of the mission and of the missionaries.
Your new responsibilities include:
· * Setting an example for the missionaries in your
district in obedience, proselyting skills, studying the gospel, effective
planning and hard work.
· * Carrying a full proselyting load and baptizing
in your assigned area.
· * Supervising, teaching and inspiring the
missionaries in your district by serving them and strengthening their faith in
Jesus Christ.
· * Plan and conduct regular district meetings
· * Conducting companionship exchanges and outlined
in the Missionary Handbook pages 63-65
· * Interviewing baptismal candidates
· * Looking after the well being of missionaries in
your district, especially the sisters
· * Accounting and reporting any concerns to the
zone leaders. If the concerns are
confidential, urgent or of a worthiness nature you should report them directly
to me.
This is an important
responsibility that the Lord will help you righteously fulfill as you humbly
petition him in prayer and then become anxiously
engaged. I express my love and
appreciation to you and will remember you in my prayers.
Love and Support,
President Moffat
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Letter 9-10-2013
Hello,
Elder Oliveros and I are so blessed to be able to be a part of Kissandra and Amy's baptism... this could have materialized a year ago but somehow things work out and it landed with us. The Lord again provided a way for us to baptize two people this month and reach mission standard of excellence. :)
These girls have been going to church for a very long time now while they've been at their grandparents house in west valley. None of their family is members - mom, dad, grandpa, grandma - just one uncle that's a convert. Their mom lives in some apartments in our area and has them on Friday and Saturday. We met her as she just finished moving in on my very first day in this area - May 1st. My very last Saturday in the area we're able to baptize her two girls, and they were confirmed on Sunday. Also on Sunday, a testimony by the girls' grandpa that he wants to be baptized. The missionaries in West Valley will be happy :) Kristi, the mom, needs to get a divorce from her husband that's in Mexico currently and then get married to her husband, but she'll be baptized once that happens.
Transfers came around as you can tell. I'm going to the Bennion East Stake. My new companion will be Elder Mintey. He came out with Elder Oliveros, so he's just finished his first 12 weeks... I'll also be the District Leader over there. It came as a big surprise because president ended up calling us wayyyy later than he usually does for these kind of things. Eh.
Anyways,
People can ask this question in many forms. Elder Nelson makes a big list of them during his last two talks in general conference. If people come to you for advice on just about anything though, let it run across your mind to tell them to ask the elders instead. We'll be glad to answer any questions for sure! :) So listen for times when people ask "What should I do?" and have them get their answers from us then we'll be busy and happy and stuff.
This week is way exciting!
Elder Oliveros and I are so blessed to be able to be a part of Kissandra and Amy's baptism... this could have materialized a year ago but somehow things work out and it landed with us. The Lord again provided a way for us to baptize two people this month and reach mission standard of excellence. :)
These girls have been going to church for a very long time now while they've been at their grandparents house in west valley. None of their family is members - mom, dad, grandpa, grandma - just one uncle that's a convert. Their mom lives in some apartments in our area and has them on Friday and Saturday. We met her as she just finished moving in on my very first day in this area - May 1st. My very last Saturday in the area we're able to baptize her two girls, and they were confirmed on Sunday. Also on Sunday, a testimony by the girls' grandpa that he wants to be baptized. The missionaries in West Valley will be happy :) Kristi, the mom, needs to get a divorce from her husband that's in Mexico currently and then get married to her husband, but she'll be baptized once that happens.
Transfers came around as you can tell. I'm going to the Bennion East Stake. My new companion will be Elder Mintey. He came out with Elder Oliveros, so he's just finished his first 12 weeks... I'll also be the District Leader over there. It came as a big surprise because president ended up calling us wayyyy later than he usually does for these kind of things. Eh.
PS yes mom I'm wearing a Taylorsville High shirt in the second picture...
found it at Wal-Mart and felt I needed to share in alumi pride. I just remember
your stories of your football team suiting up in baby blue and yellow...
ha
Anyways,
Elder Chandler
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thought: "What should I do?"
This week our mission Book of Mormon reading included Alma 32. One phrase I
love comes in verse 5 when a large group of the poorer class and ask Alma and
Amulek a simple question: "What shall we do?" This phrase is actually used word
for word in another place in the scriptures in Acts 2:37, when another group of
people speak to Peter and the Apostles on the Pentacost - "men and brethren,
what shall we do?"
If this phrase is used twice, both in missionary context, it flags to me
that it's an important step in hooking people to the gospel. We need to get them
to ask, "What should I do?". The basic finding pattern goes like this:
1) bear testimony
2) pricked with the spirit
3) what should I do?
4) invite/commit/follow up
Now, because this is part of the finding process, it's a great tool for
members to use (as finding is your responsibility in the first place!). Whenever
anyone asks you any form of the question "what should I do", you can immediately
respond, "Ask the missionaries! They can help you!"
People can ask this question in many forms. Elder Nelson makes a big list of them during his last two talks in general conference. If people come to you for advice on just about anything though, let it run across your mind to tell them to ask the elders instead. We'll be glad to answer any questions for sure! :) So listen for times when people ask "What should I do?" and have them get their answers from us then we'll be busy and happy and stuff.
Wednesday, August 28, 2013
Letter 08-27-2013
Everyone,
Midvale is never short of surprises. The stories from some of the other
missionaries and their investigators... and the frequency of the insanity is
crazy. So many people working to baptism go to jail... or move... or go back to
meth... or whatever.
But none of our kids have gotten into any of that so we're still good :)
The weather is cooling off, so there's really nothing to complain about. Finding
is always a bit of a struggle with an area that covers .4 square miles - the
Lord provides enough to keep us busy though. If there's one thing that's true
about this mission it's that, even though we might not be busy with
investigators all the time, all the investigators we do pick up get to the
water. And it's a miracle every single time they do.
So the funny story of the week is when a 13 year old boy OYM'd us walking
home from school (usually when people talk with us instead of us talking with
them, it's not a good thing) and asked if we were Jehovah's Witness. We told him
we were LDS. From there the convo went something like this:
"You know that God isn't real, right?"
EC - "Where'd you get that idea?"
"It's just common knowledge... there couldn't be a God."
EC - silence...
"There's no proof there's a God."
EC - "Where did life start from then?"
"You've never heard of the Big Bang Theory, have you?"
Elder Oliveros - "You mean the TV show?"
hahaha i thought it was funny anyways. If you were wondering how
that finished up, he told us to have a bad day and walked off. We get quite a
bit of "Hail Satans" and such... we even got a "White Power" yesterday?? But hey
it's all part of the gig.
--Elder Chandler
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thought: Children of God
I really don't think there's a more powerful thought than the fact that we
are children of God with a divine heritage. We inherited divine potential.
Borrowing a bit from Elder Bednar's talk on chastity and taking a little of my
own inflection: We are defined by our divine potential. What a thought! We are
defined by our divine potential. Right now in the Book of Life each one of us is
defined by our potential, and it's up to us to live up to that definition.
I wrote a little couplet-thing that I feel connected to:
I think in this life
We oft forget this thought.
The thought: in this life
We are as, "I think oft..."
I hope I can more often reflect on my divine heritage and potential in
order to live up to and ultimately become as such.
Tuesday, August 20, 2013
Letter 08-20-2013
Hello,
Whether it be the heat in the past weeks or whatever, it's been really hard
to find people. But the Lord always provides a way to baptize twice monthly
through faith, obedience, and diligence.
The very first day I got into this area, we met a young mom that wanted her
two children baptized. Because she had the kids before she was 18, her parents
have legal custody of them and haven't wanted them baptized. But this last week
she finally got permission from her parents! So they're being baptized on August
31st. They've been attending church in West Valley with their grandparents for a
long time now, so we're able to move quickly with them. It's awesome.
Other than that we just keep going out and working. And playing frisbee and
basketball on pdays.
--Elder Chandler
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thought: commitment
I recently went back to read Elder Cook's talk from this last October. I
think the talk was kind of overshadowed by President Monson's preceding
announcement for me... because it's very, very insightful. It attempts to tackle
the apathy felt by many members towards the church, and even just to help us
during those "spiritual droughts" we all sometimes fall into. In some ways I
feel like Elder Cook's talk and Elder Holland's talk from that general
conference attempt to address the same issue. Elder Holland's talk is beautiful
to listen to and inspiring, while Elder Cook's is quainter and more logic-based.
I like both.
It's not until the middle of his talk that he really gets into his meat -
starting with a quote by CS Lewis. He asks us first to change our paradigm
towards commitment to the gospel, to realize we're sick and need a doctor. He
gives us a good process to be able to do so in Alma chapter 5. He gives us some
checks to make sure we aren't doing - abuse or sexual immorality/impure
thoughts.
In PMG we are told that all concerns are based in either testimony or
commitment. By helping our investigators first realize(!) they need to repent
("Commitment and repentance are closely intertwined"), then go through the
process of commitment we can help them more often overcome the commitment
concern, which is by far the most common concern I've run into. (The
investigators I've taught usually have testimonies...)
It's also helped me a lot to be able to work my way through back to that
fervor pitch to want to share the gospel by following Elder Cook's suggestions
instead of relying on spiritual punches from Elder Holland :)
Sunday, August 18, 2013
Elder Sighting 08-18-2013
Valerie,
I was pleasantly surprised when I turned around in Sunday School today, and there was 'Elder Chandler.' I grew up in the Midvale 6th Ward and was back visiting. I had a training in SLC on Friday, and went to my old ward for church this morning. When I asked him, "Are your parents Greg and Valerie?" he didn't seem totally shocked but did ask how I knew you. When I told him I was in the Little Flock Ward it all made sense. Attached is a picture of us with his companion. It isn't super clear, but I thought you would still like to see it.
Lynnette Smith
I was pleasantly surprised when I turned around in Sunday School today, and there was 'Elder Chandler.' I grew up in the Midvale 6th Ward and was back visiting. I had a training in SLC on Friday, and went to my old ward for church this morning. When I asked him, "Are your parents Greg and Valerie?" he didn't seem totally shocked but did ask how I knew you. When I told him I was in the Little Flock Ward it all made sense. Attached is a picture of us with his companion. It isn't super clear, but I thought you would still like to see it.
Lynnette Smith
Tuesday, August 13, 2013
Letter 08-13-2013
Hey,
I think I'm the most tan I've even been in my life. Not just tan but
missionary tan - a beautiful white strip on my wrist from the watch and a nice
white neck from a high collar. It's funny because Elder Oliveros always looks in
the mirror and says "I'm so dark". Apparently just like it's cool to be tan in
the USA, it's cool to be light in the Phillipines. I will say though I think my
leg hairs are suffocating because they haven't been outside in shorts for 14
months now... Poor guys :(
The work is still where it was last week... all of our time spent finding.
We're doing a bit of everything - LARCs, member work, personal finding, formers.
It's going to come together at some point on the Lord's timeline, but right now
we're still kind of struggling in the dark.
I've been reading through all of the conference ensigns in our apartment
during "free time" (lunch, dinner-at-home, etc). It might also interest you mom
that we spend a lunch every once in a while in the church building where I've
been practicing hymns. I can play "Nearer My God to Thee" and "Come Follow Me"
now, and I'm working on a couple more. Piano lessons and music theory aren't
totally useless out here...
I don't know how many of you watch "The District" or know what it is, but
rumor has been going around that they're making a District 3 in the Salt Lake
West Mission... we just got a short clip the other day during Zone Training and
it turns out Elder Joseph Isabell is in it. Kinda fun to have a college roommate
become a movie star!
Also we just did the math and our area is 4/10ths of a square mile,
ha.
Have a good week,
Elder Chandler
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thought: Beguile, yet guileless
Part of training in my last 3 transfers has been going through the 12-week
training program. It basically adds an extra hour to companion study in the
morning and gives us time to go through a guided program through Preach My
Gospel. It's really insightful. Each week we've been coming up with a catch
phrase for what we've learned that week. This weeks was the title of the
thought.
There's a phrase that's always intrigued me, found in two places in the
standard works that I know of. "Be wise, yet harmless" - Alma 18:22-23 and
Matthew 10:16. The statement to "be wise, yet harmless" is directed straight at
missionaries - Christ gives the injunction to his Apostles right before they are
sent on missions, and Mormon uses it to describe Ammon during a classic
missionary discussion.
(I apologize in advance for the scripture math): Alma 18:23, Alma
"beguiles" King Lamoni. That's his being "wise". Therefore, "beguile, yet
harmless". Matthew 10:16 footnote for harmless defines harmless as "guileless",
and thus we get to: "Beguile, yet guileless". Guile = G. G = notG, which is
kinda dumb because that's a completely illogical statement.
I just like the idea though that as missionaries we're supposed to be
sneaky and crafty but, as long as we're doing so in love and for the right
reasons, we're doing our job well, specifically dealing with committing people
to do things.. It reminds me of the wording of Phillipians 4:12, counseling us
to be "full and hungry, to abound and to be abased". Because of the contrasting
opposites though, the idea that they are trying to get across is expressed even
though it's way hard to describe in words.
Sorry this was kind of a wordy thought without a good conclusion.
Monday, August 12, 2013
Letter 08-06-2013
Hi,
Apparently this has been the hottest July in the history of the state of Utah. Wasn't it just yesterday we had the coldest January on record? Hmmmm...
August doesn't feel any cooler yet. We're still working on finding people to teach. It's seriously the most trying thing in missionary work. We taught a lot of LARCs (Less Active/Recent Convert lessons). From what we've heard, and for some reason no one is sure about exactly, apparently teaching a lot of LARCs helps you to find investigators, so we're testing it out and making sure we ask for referrals.
I personally want to make sure we don't fall into the same trap that Elder Bloomfield and I fell into in Murray Little Cottonwood when we were given the Coronas family and some others the Sisters were teaching that we weren't helping progress very well. We've got to find the balance between working with families like the Darlingtons, Ammons, and Andrews while still making sure we're finding time to, well, find.
We just finished having a massive birthday party at Brother Hobson's house for Elder Ciavardini and Elder Nuttall. It's fun seeing a fair amount of people again. Bro Hobson is so good to us Elders. He takes us shopping every week and we have lunch at his house every Saturday. He even took in Chris Floyd a couple weeks ago while we finished teaching him and baptized him. He's a returning member.
--Elder Chandler
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thought: fun one-liner from the August Ensign
We get our hands on the new Ensigns whenever we have a mission conference. This time we were lucky and got it pretty early in the month. I love some of the profound statements in it. I like to try and come up with my own every once in a while. It's fun. Anyways....:
"We pray continuously for guidance, but we shouldn’t expect continuous revelation. We expect continuing revelation..."
I love how pithy the apostles are in their language.
For all I do though, it's hard to beat Elder Holland: "To those who were once with us but have retreated, preferring to pick and choose a few cultural hors d’oeuvres from the smorgasbord of the Restoration and leave the rest of the feast..."
I hope I can say things that succinctly and cool someday. Honestly, I think I could read that out loud forever and never get bored of hearing it. :)
Apparently this has been the hottest July in the history of the state of Utah. Wasn't it just yesterday we had the coldest January on record? Hmmmm...
August doesn't feel any cooler yet. We're still working on finding people to teach. It's seriously the most trying thing in missionary work. We taught a lot of LARCs (Less Active/Recent Convert lessons). From what we've heard, and for some reason no one is sure about exactly, apparently teaching a lot of LARCs helps you to find investigators, so we're testing it out and making sure we ask for referrals.
I personally want to make sure we don't fall into the same trap that Elder Bloomfield and I fell into in Murray Little Cottonwood when we were given the Coronas family and some others the Sisters were teaching that we weren't helping progress very well. We've got to find the balance between working with families like the Darlingtons, Ammons, and Andrews while still making sure we're finding time to, well, find.
We just finished having a massive birthday party at Brother Hobson's house for Elder Ciavardini and Elder Nuttall. It's fun seeing a fair amount of people again. Bro Hobson is so good to us Elders. He takes us shopping every week and we have lunch at his house every Saturday. He even took in Chris Floyd a couple weeks ago while we finished teaching him and baptized him. He's a returning member.
--Elder Chandler
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thought: fun one-liner from the August Ensign
We get our hands on the new Ensigns whenever we have a mission conference. This time we were lucky and got it pretty early in the month. I love some of the profound statements in it. I like to try and come up with my own every once in a while. It's fun. Anyways....:
"We pray continuously for guidance, but we shouldn’t expect continuous revelation. We expect continuing revelation..."
I love how pithy the apostles are in their language.
For all I do though, it's hard to beat Elder Holland: "To those who were once with us but have retreated, preferring to pick and choose a few cultural hors d’oeuvres from the smorgasbord of the Restoration and leave the rest of the feast..."
I hope I can say things that succinctly and cool someday. Honestly, I think I could read that out loud forever and never get bored of hearing it. :)
Tuesday, August 6, 2013
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